Originally Posted by Trying2figureitout
Can't see how that would help unless there is serious snoring involved...as for getting closer no chance.
If you want to end the marriage just keep doing what you are doing. As for me, your actions would be a deal breaker if I were your spouse. I would detach my feelings from you as best as I could ASAP so that I could better move on with my life without you.
You are the poster and yet I feel for your wife and not you after reading only your side of things.