Originally Posted by bhappy3

Thanks guys... I did email her and was pretty blunt about it b/c I was so upset by that point. But, it got the message across and we IM'd actually during the time I emailed her. Saving the friendship really wasn't an issue... we're almost like sisters, so we'll always be there for each other, just that my intensity was waning. I've told her about this before and she was good about it for a little while, but just like a man, she went back. It's going real good now, but we'll see how long it lasts. I think we may need a keyword or something, so that if she does it again I can just say one word, like pancake or something, and she'll know what I'm talking about. She's just a pretty intelligent person with ADHD, so her head bounces around like a superball. It's just a matter of taming it. Thanks for the thoughts!!