Originally Posted by DailyGrind

I hate to be so naive...but when I D-Day'd this with her.....I made her a deal....Come downstairs and discuss this, or I reveal to OMW immediately.

This morning I asked her what she would do when he tried contacting her. She said she would just explain it to him. I told her, WRONG ANSWER. She doesn't understand how serious this is. No Contact means NO CONTACT!

After reading all your all emails....I agree I should inform the OMW. I really find it hard to believe there will be no attempt at contact. Nothing so far, this morning...but then...she already knows her phone is suspect.

I just talked to her on the phone. I reiterated NO CONTACT...and she swore she would tell me if he tries. I had also told her this morning, before work, that I would be contacting a lawyer. She was shocked. When I just talked to her on the phone, I told her I loved her. She said "even after what you said this morning?"...meaning the lawyer. I said yes...and that I would be emailing her some options for a counselor for her to look at. She seemed hesitant. I asked her if she was changing her mind. She said..."well not if you are going to a lawyer." I told her the two issues were not related. The lawyer is for MY protection. The counselor is for OURS!