dweezledap

I'm no psychologist but it sounds like you husband defanetly has some issues. He reminds me a lot of my father ... he treats his wife the same as your husband treats you. My father was never able to show any kind of affection towards me, my sister, my mother, or his two wives since. My father had a terrible childhood and I believe this is why he is like he is.

He is very charming and fun to be around when he is at the bar and with friends but at home he was impossible. He believes the man makes the money and the woman stays at home, the man is the boss and the woman should do as she is told and not grip or complain because "she has got it good".

I know for a fact that people like this will not change. They will not admit when they are wrong, and will never apologize. I just hope he is not doing this just to "teach you a lessen" and expect you to take him back when he feels you have been punished enough. Leaving you on Valentine's day was pretty cold whether you were fighting or not.

Of course I am only basing these assumptions on your short post and my life experience ... I could be way off base here.