| | Re: is there a chance we can reconcile
If you are religious, I suggest talking with the pastor who married you. Otherwise, the book "love must be tough" or might a few other books might be good.
Also, he does miss and love you or he wouldn't contact you. It might be best to cut contact and say if you want to commit with either marriage counseling or books (I could suggest a few), then don't contact me. If you want to commit, let's work hard, have sex/sext, and talk. When he feels lonely or horny he'll know what he needs to do. He will feel both.
Depending on his parents or friend situation, you could seek support from there.
Right now he just doesn't see hope and is full of hurt. There is a good chance that will change, but sometimes it takes months. Don't destroy the relationship and keep fighting for the relationship till the paperwork is signed.
My story is in my profile but my story isn't complete yet.
Blessings and best of luck.
Last edited by anx; 11-07-2011 at 08:59 PM.