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Originally Posted by draconis
klop ~ When playing with fire you will get burned sooner or later. What happens if your wife wants a divorce from you and take half of everything plus child support and child care?
How will your GF act when she finds out? The best thing to happen is she is only mad at you, what happens IF she confronts your wife?
I think she will be less upset to hear it from you but what was she thinking being with a married man thinking you were not burning the candle at both ends.
Also at some point they will check your wife for VD before the birth so if messing around has given you a bit extra then she might find out from that.
I don't know that you can keep both things together. Frankly, I think you should read all the posts on this forum to see what emotional, mental and physical harm cheating has done to many wives and husbands.
draconis
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Thanks Draconis, You always give great advice. I have only been with my wife and my gf in the last 15 years. I always use a condom with the girlfriend. I think it is the only respectful thing to do for my wife. And even if my wife were to discover my relationship, she would not leave me. I am a good husband, I have just be withheld sex for too long. I know an adulterous relationship is devestating to everyone involved, but how can the other women in this forum expect a man to stay and be faithful if she does not provide sex, for any reason over a long period of time? Sexual relations are a natural function of life. If it is no longer availible, yet the man still wants to provide for his wife, how can she complain about what the husband does to satify this natural function of life?