Re: Should I tell my girlfriend my wife is pregnant?
HELLO...ok, I wont jump on your so I'll use an example. IF my husband was to have a "GF" and I found out, I'd leave him in the dust. I wouldn't say a word, nor would I even look at him. I'd calmly pick up my purse and keys, drive to the courthouse, file for divorce, and never look back. No matter WHAT is wrong in a marriage, cheating is not justifiable! And I'm sorry, cheating to me does not make ANYONE a good spouse! That makes them LOW in my book! I HATE cheaters, and I'll say that and hope to not get into trouble! But I do! Marriage vows are words of a GAME today and alot of people are playing it. In the end they will LOSE, and I'm just glad I won't be apart of that. Have you considered BEFORE you went off and found a "girlfriend" that your wife may be having emotional problems or something going on herself and all you saw was "she just wasn't intrested"???? Ahh, I may have to stay out of this thread cause it pisses me the hell off!!! PSSh how can other women in this forum expect a man to stay faithful if she doesn't provide sex??? its called SELF-CONTROL!!!!! You'd never survive the Military Life...do you honestly think that having to go 7months or more w.o sex with my husband because he's away would cause me to cheat...??? NO....him?? NO!!! Its called RESPECTING each other, and finding out what is wrong. If its because she doesn't want you(insert opinion here) then leave! Obviously its not working! I say be honest with them both. Its the least they both deserve from someone who has been two-timing...*shrugs* just my Honest Opinion
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