Thank you for your support. It means more to me then what I can express. It is comforting hearing that others see this behavior as a “true” violation. It is amazing how he distorts the reality and seriousness of deception. I was looking for a marriage counselor that could handle alcoholism when I found this site. I have to confess that it has shocked me that I am married to someone that behaves without integrity and to someone that is disrespectful to me, to himself and to our marriage. My father always respected the family above everything and it blows my mind that I am married to someone that doesn’t. I ask myself often “how did this happen to me”?
I will find counseling for him and marriage counseling for us. What a shame this is. I have been planning and saving for retirement and now I most likely will be planning a divorce if he doesn’t turn this around quickly. My heart is broken because I don’t want to be alone and I want a healthy relationship.
I refuse to put my head in the sand for another day. Thank you very much for your support.
