Hi all,
Thanks for all your replies.
Finally after a month he is doing some things. He has done the dishes acouple of times and picks up some of his things in the rest of house. He talks to me alittle better and he did clean up his side of the bedroom. Still not touching the surface. I do see some effort but I'm just not feeling it. He constantly says "I don't think you love me anymore" and pouts around and tries to make me feel guilty or just bugs me all the time.
Still no sex or even kissing he says he doesn't want to kiss me b/c he thinks I think it will lead to sex and he doesn't want that. I had off this weekend and mentioned sex acouple of times and well nothing.
Am I asking to much for him plan something special or even bending over backwards. I know if I was in his shoes, I'd be doing ALOT more.
I was surprised on Valentine with roses (the second time in our entire relationship), a card, CD and video game I've been asking for, for 2 years (yes, I love the videogames
). So plus on that.
But, he still has not made an appointment with a counseler or anything.
OK, I know I've asked this before and I guess I need a brick to fall on my head, but what do I do?
I almost feel like I'm not in Love with him anymore and now I don't find him attractive. Now I feel like the bad guy.
