Originally Posted by Thor
you really need to read the book No More Mr. Nice Guy.
He did. Its in his OP.
To the OP,
First of all, stop all the catering and shut down the honey do to once a week for 2 hours. You have allowed your wife to turn you into her servant. There is nothing sexy about being a doormat.
Secondly, you need to tell your wife this is not what you had in mind when you got married. A complete lack of interest, flexibility and frequency of sex isnt working for you and it needs toget fixed.
Ask her directly what the problem is. Why is she not interested more often. Tell her you think its because you let her walk on you by taking up all of your free time to wait on her.
Tell her you are going to pursue interests outside the home and you want her to join you.
You two are in a rut.
How do you blow a womans hair back?
1. Romance, pursuit, effort
2. Fun, activity, humor, energy
3. Naughtiness, spice, variety, mystery, surprise
4. Mix it up, keeping her guessing and engaged in anticipation
5. Be more direct with your thoughts. Just say it.
6. There are primal needs and companionship needs. Meet both.