wrongguy

Yes I know she wants boundaries, but how do you set boundaries on your ex who doesnt have to follow them? Kind of pointless and it causes problems for me and being able to talk to my kids.

Yes she does resent me for it. but I only do it for my kids not for my ex. I get more time with them and only do it when my wife and i dont have any plans. its getting to the point that i feel she is resenting me just having kids.

I hear you about the whining part. I dont agree at all. being 32 and married getting my kids every other weekend sleeping at my moms living out of duffle bags...... maybe some wouldnt mind but I do.

I honestly feel like i put her first every day of my life! But if it comes to getting my kids on off weekend or they have a bday party to go to on my weekend and we dont have plans then I feel like I should tell her and if i want to forfit my weekend so they can have fun with a bday party or me getting them on off weekend then it shouldnt be a problem.

Well I dont know if she will even soften up after I now said I want a divorce. She has some control issues I believe and others have mentioned after I have told them the issues at work.

I told her I wanted a divorce and I dont at all but at the same time I ready to come home and not live at moms any more. I am a grown up and I married I feel she should treat me as on as her spouse and as her equal