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Mag · 11-14-2011, 07:35 AM

I've been with my guy for 17 years and only now are we getting married and I’m having doubts, our sex-life is none existent and he seems fine with it, like it doesn’t bother him at all, so I’m having to initiate it all the time and for so long now I can’t remember when this started only that now I’m feeling that it’s me.... is it me? Because almost every time, he’ll turn me down saying ‘I’m not in the mood’ so I have to ‘work’ to get what I want and some of the time I'm feeling as though he's forcing himself to do it, and I’m tired of doing all the chasing. There is no problem with 'performance' and there is no way that he is having an affair.

11-14-2011, 07:35 AM	#44 (permalink)
Mag Registered User Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 2	Re: Why isn't my husband interested in sex? I've been with my guy for 17 years and only now are we getting married and I’m having doubts, our sex-life is none existent and he seems fine with it, like it doesn’t bother him at all, so I’m having to initiate it all the time and for so long now I can’t remember when this started only that now I’m feeling that it’s me.... is it me? Because almost every time, he’ll turn me down saying ‘I’m not in the mood’ so I have to ‘work’ to get what I want and some of the time I'm feeling as though he's forcing himself to do it, and I’m tired of doing all the chasing. There is no problem with 'performance' and there is no way that he is having an affair.