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Old 02-19-2008, 12:52 PM   #4 (permalink)
sarahdale24
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Default Re: Wife text a guy...way too much

Here is a suggestion...

Plan a dinner at your home, tell your wife you would like to invite her "BFF" off for dinner and maybe drinks(for you two, not your wife since she is preg.) See what she says. If she is "iffy" about it, or seems fishy, then I would suspect something.

Ever heard the expression "kill them with kindness" do just that... be SUPER nice to her, ask about her day, etc(even if she doesn't respond) try this for about a week. Have a clear and open mind, non-judgemental and put forth all YOU can. If she doesn't give, then I'd look into counceling, and if she detests, then seperating is an option, just stay close so you aren't branded a "bad father" for leaving your child...
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