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I'mAllIn · 11-14-2011, 03:25 PM

If no trust issues or anything like that then I've never given H a curfew or vice versa. Seems like something we'd do for our teenager and not each other. We also don't limit how often. More important to me is that he always invites me along. Sometimes I go, usually not. He also tells me honestly when he expects to be home, if it's just drinks after work and he'll be home by 8:00 or friends in from out of town, might close down the bars. Then he calls if plans change.
I think it's important to maintain outside friends and interests so I don't think I would make a big deal of it until/unless it started to get out of hand.

11-14-2011, 03:25 PM	#5 (permalink)
I'mAllIn Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: The Last Best Place Posts: 308	Re: What time you expect your spouse to be home after social time If no trust issues or anything like that then I've never given H a curfew or vice versa. Seems like something we'd do for our teenager and not each other. We also don't limit how often. More important to me is that he always invites me along. Sometimes I go, usually not. He also tells me honestly when he expects to be home, if it's just drinks after work and he'll be home by 8:00 or friends in from out of town, might close down the bars. Then he calls if plans change. I think it's important to maintain outside friends and interests so I don't think I would make a big deal of it until/unless it started to get out of hand.