Originally Posted by confused55
My husband started viewing porn daily and then took the next step and went for a happy ending massage.
I did not know about all of this going on for the past year, but found his email making an appointment for the massage. Well, the **** hit the fan I'll tell you.
He says he hasn't viewed porn since this all happened (March), since the whole thing has caused so much shame and guilt for him.
Just stating the porn can often lead to more of a problem if in the hands of the wrong person.
I'm sure that if he wasn't caught, he would have continued into darker areas eventually. He agrees with this.
(By the way, I never refused sex), but he was replacing me with the porn stars.
We've been to counselling which helped him feel better about himself, but it really hasn't helped me. I am always thinking about it and wonder if we can continue to be together because of the resentment I feel.
So, I guess what I'm saying is, there is a real danger to porn in some instances.
Been married for 3 decades. No problems before this year, that I know of.
I agree that it can lead to other things.. My husband hasn't done anything other then looking at porn to my knowledge anyway.
I have never refused my husband sex either, if i did i would totally get it.
I am happy you caught your husband before anything else happened.