Originally Posted by stav
13 years is a long time to be together, and you can't let him throw it all away without a fight.
Remember that many people have already given there all to situations until they broke themselves. It sounds like by the posts that she has tried many roads and yet has a few more to try before throwing in the towel.
Goodkatt ~ The real problem is most alcoholics take a year or more to get to the lower part of normal. You will have to decide what improvements are worth hanging around for. I wish you the best of luck.