| | Re: Married and Sexually Frustrated
Well, you can cut right to the chase like Chilly recommends, but you'll still need to be prepared to try and pull your own weight in resolving whatever relationship issues there may be going on if you do throw around the D word and your wife decides to work on the marriage.
Otherwise, after a short period of time of complying by your wife to your demands, you may find yourself in the same boat again. Because just telling her won't make a difference unless she also sees action on your part, as she tries to act on her part.
It will take BOTH of you making changes to make it work, but whoever it is bugging the most (you, in this case) can make the first move.
I'll leave it to you to decide what that first move should be since you are the only one here who knows your wife.
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