Originally Posted by RandomDude
Looks like his button is very clear and ready to be pushed. Still, how does he get friend zoned? He's a pretty boy, he should be friend zoning them... or unless he's rather awkward when dealing with the girls he likes.
Random Dude, if you lived near me, I would seriously have a BALL getting you together with my son & listening to you telling him how to pick up the chicks! Ha ha. How entertaining that would be !
....I could just see him now...arguing with you -how he is not into this "game playing".... then he wouldn't like the fact you slept with women you was not in love with -before your wife, in his world -that is simply NOT honorable and men should restrain themselves.
I am not getting on you about this, please understand, I am just saying ...he is a TOUGH COOKIE, he really thinks he has all the answers, him .....and GOD. He won't listen to me - about incorporating some "bad boy" mannerisms to catch the women HE WANTS. So when he hits 30 & every girl he ever tried to go after Friend Zoned him -maybe he will rethink some of this. Some has to learn from thier own stupidity I guess.
I joke with him about his 14 yr old brother teaching him how to pick up the chicks- he is more forthcoming with overt joking around with the girls & for the past year & a half , it seems he has been bombarded , he has them asking him out from other schools, being invited to youth groups, amusement parks, an older girl asked him to Home Coming, one friend outright kissed him this summer when they were taking a walk -he probably wouldn't have told me if I wasn't asking questions- and these girls are cute! I just learned how he got his latest GF (his 3rd)... They are in Sports together (CC), coming back from a meet, he wrote on the bus's fogged windows "____ is pretty", she must have looked, then pushing it a little further, he wrote "very pretty" .... and well they have been together ever since. Young love, he walks her home every day. It is so sweet. I might have to watch THIS boy! And he still has other girls texting him & flirting - even though he is taken. I guess he'll have to be my older son's mentor. Ha ha
The flirting and touching became more intense but we still considered each other "friends", she put her legs on me, I stroked her inner thighs
My son would feel this is wrong unless he was practically engaged & even then, he would think it would invite too much passion and bring him over the edge to where he couldn't stop.
But of coarse I agree with YOU RD, that is all the FUN!!
Then we started playing a new game... I pull back, she comes forward. She pulls back, I flank her and catch her. I wasn't going to let her go. We were in love...
But anyways, as you can see it's not bad at all being "friend-zoned", he still has a chance, he just needs to step up on the game. But all of what I did I didn't learn out of book or even prior experience. I simply followed my heart, my gut, and even learnt her tricks of the trade - to use that against her to seduce her.
Love will do that.
I enjoyed your story Random Dude- It is sweet and you know the art of Game playing Seduction, you are a natural... I am afraid my oldest is not. He is too overly respectable- alot like his dad, plus a little repressed on top of that -but he will not admit that, of coarse.
I hope you have started a "JOURNAL" to record all of this -about you & her's beginnings & the GOOD times, it will help carry you through the bad. This is something I did about a year ago. As much as I love to write, suprisingly I never started a Journal of our experiences. Now I have a "Family Journal" & a separate , what I call - "Erotic Journal" that my kids better never get their hands on! Ha ha