Originally Posted by unbelievable

Even on the days he's angry with you, is he still your husband? Do you expect him to behave as a husband even if you've made him mad or upset? Can he just quit going to work if you disappoint him? When you treat him like s$%#, don't you still expect husbandly things from him? Isn't that what you both promised? If the plan is to act lovingly only when you feel loving, there's no need for a marriage ceremony. I feed my wife when she's hungry, not just on the days I'm happy with her.