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Trying2figureitout · 11-16-2011, 09:11 PM

The problem with sex is that there is NO ALTERNATIVE in a committed marriage.

So if partners have a mismatched idea of the importance of sex... that ALWAYS creates stress and damages the marriage in some fashion. many marriages get destroyed over this very issue.

SEX should never be a bargaining chip.... as there is NO ALTERNATIVE. NONE.

Drives me crazy when people think otherwise.
So many marriages could be so much better if both spouses fully understood this basic concept.

I could have avoided years of mental anguish if my wife had a clue.
Frustrating.

She has limited time to figure this out or I'm doing a total and complete shutdown on her. I wont leave her but I will shutdown so she leaves me. She either plays or things will change.

I'm happy because I "think" I shocked her straight finally.

11-16-2011, 09:11 PM	#12 (permalink)
Trying2figureitout Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 1,247	Re: Respect & Sex The problem with sex is that there is NO ALTERNATIVE in a committed marriage. So if partners have a mismatched idea of the importance of sex... that ALWAYS creates stress and damages the marriage in some fashion. many marriages get destroyed over this very issue. SEX should never be a bargaining chip.... as there is NO ALTERNATIVE. NONE. Drives me crazy when people think otherwise. So many marriages could be so much better if both spouses fully understood this basic concept. I could have avoided years of mental anguish if my wife had a clue. Frustrating. She has limited time to figure this out or I'm doing a total and complete shutdown on her. I wont leave her but I will shutdown so she leaves me. She either plays or things will change. I'm happy because I "think" I shocked her straight finally. Last edited by Trying2figureitout; 11-16-2011 at 09:18 PM.