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opio · 02-20-2008, 08:38 AM

It sounds like your wife is taking you for granted. I agree with splitting up the chores. Sometimes people need to be reminded that you are not their personal maid. If the cats were her idea, then I would give her a test period of a week or two to tend to 'Her' cats and if she doesn't help out or tend to it or them then i would get rid of them or it.

My wife and I are sort of in the same area being married a couple months (shy of that 1 year mark) she has this cat that I can't stand, but she takes care of the cat (litter, mess, feeding, water, ect.) because she didn't believe me at first when I said i was done with it, i had to show her and the cat went without food for two days (poor cat) but she got the message.

Was she like this before you got married or is this all new? When did this all change? What do you think caused the change?

02-20-2008, 08:38 AM	#5 (permalink)
opio Registered User Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 8	Re: Tired of everything It sounds like your wife is taking you for granted. I agree with splitting up the chores. Sometimes people need to be reminded that you are not their personal maid. If the cats were her idea, then I would give her a test period of a week or two to tend to 'Her' cats and if she doesn't help out or tend to it or them then i would get rid of them or it. My wife and I are sort of in the same area being married a couple months (shy of that 1 year mark) she has this cat that I can't stand, but she takes care of the cat (litter, mess, feeding, water, ect.) because she didn't believe me at first when I said i was done with it, i had to show her and the cat went without food for two days (poor cat) but she got the message. Was she like this before you got married or is this all new? When did this all change? What do you think caused the change?