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JustMe · 07-30-2007, 07:56 PM

Hi!
I've never been much of a "chat" person, but lately I started looking at forums (such as this one) and I've noticed that people seem to form great bonds albeit mostly anonymously through them. Maybe your husband has found a place to vent online. I can see how it can be addicting especially if you don't have any in-person friends close by. I can see how it's frustrating to you since he is 1. Hiding it from you, and 2. Apparently not coming to you with whatever his venting/thoughts may be. If the chats are for depressed/bi-polar people, maybe he feels more comfortable discussing the issue with them because they have "been there". I'm not saying it's right, especially because it is causing mistrust and interfering with your relationship. Just some objective thoughts. I'm sorry you're dealing with so much! Keep posting here if you need to. Sometimes it really helps to vent!
~JustMe

07-30-2007, 07:56 PM	#2 (permalink)
JustMe Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Florida Posts: 57	Re: Don't know that to think anymore Hi! I've never been much of a "chat" person, but lately I started looking at forums (such as this one) and I've noticed that people seem to form great bonds albeit mostly anonymously through them. Maybe your husband has found a place to vent online. I can see how it can be addicting especially if you don't have any in-person friends close by. I can see how it's frustrating to you since he is 1. Hiding it from you, and 2. Apparently not coming to you with whatever his venting/thoughts may be. If the chats are for depressed/bi-polar people, maybe he feels more comfortable discussing the issue with them because they have "been there". I'm not saying it's right, especially because it is causing mistrust and interfering with your relationship. Just some objective thoughts. I'm sorry you're dealing with so much! Keep posting here if you need to. Sometimes it really helps to vent! ~JustMe