Re: Trial seperation
Who is your wife? Both people, the one silently trying to please you though quiet means so you do not fight and the one that tells you all the nice stuff you want to hear.
The problem is you do not connect through communication with your wife (nor she to you.) You should talk about everything.
The sad fact is most seperations end in a divorce. She has had 2 emotional, and 1 physical affair. Most people who have affairs do it again.
Maybe she felt she could not come to you with her problems, whatever it is you need to find out what the deep down problem is if you do get back together so that it doesn't cause problems again.
draconis
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