| | Re: What Else Can I do?
If the roles were reversed how do you think you would be feeling and what would you want your husband to do? How would you be feeling that after 25 years of marriage that your husband was willing to put your health at risk for STD's for 8 months behind your back by taking a lover? Maybe you can gain more empathy by looking at it from this perspective.
What you have done to your husband is to destroy his confidence, self-worth and his manhood. Honestly from reading your posts I don't think you have a clue of what you have really done to him. If for 8 month you could have so easily lied to his face and have sex with your lover and putting your husband at risk for STD; why in the world do you think he would ever trust you again? If the roles were reversed would you?