nurse2008

I recently posted a similar problem with my husband, so I wanted to respond to you.

Although I do not have any answers to your problem (being that I am in a similar boat) I found this one response from a woman who posted a reply to another woman indicating that her husband lied and cheated. It really touched me and I wanted to share it with you. It's from www. cupid something. I will try to get you the exact link if you're interested. Anyway, here it is...

A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2005):


"I have been in a very similar situation. If you have'nt already done so you need to tell him how you feel plain and simple so he can understand. I tried this I also tried writing it in a letter and even playing him at his own game in the hope he would realise how i felt. My husband was always lying to me about small pointless things most of the time and a few bigger things but small lies mount up once they have lied a few times you start losing trust and wandering about everything he says or does. My husband was also very decietful which is just as bad and although I confronted him a number of times he seemed to have no concience and denied everything leaving me feeling helpless. I tried everything i could think of over and over again i was determined not to let this break us up but after a couple of years and feeling mentally exhausted i had to give up for the sake of our chidren if nothing else as it was no longer a happy house and their welfare has to be priority. after ending our marriage on good terms it was then he showed his true colours and i realised i did the right thing. Once you lose trust everything slowly dies with it. All I can say is fight with all you have to make him understand but dont put up with it and dont run yourself into the ground as I nearly did know when enough is enough. If things dont work at least you can say you tried your best. Good luck I really hope it goes well."

Good luck with your situation. Hope this helped.