Originally Posted by HusbandInPain

I have also decided that I need to know the truth of whether she is contacting the OM still. So I have installed a micro VAR under the dashboard of her car, which she sits in all day making phone calls. I'll give it a few days, and then I will know the truth one way or the other.

She has picked up today a little - bringing home dinner, and suggesting we go for a walk together this evening, rearranging some work dates so we can spend more time together. I see hope, even if the cynic in me is waiting for another crushing blow. She definitely has feelings for the OM, and is fully prepared to admit it, and that she misses him. I see this as natural. However, what she needs to demonstrate to me now is the strength to resists making that call. If she does it from either of her mobiles I will know - theres a calllogger installed on both phones. And if she calls from the car on ANY phone, I will know. Ive had enough of being pissed on, so now I am removing options for her so I can find the truth. And then we will see.