bandit0000

Thankyou very much for your responses they are very helpful. I have always wanted to get married, but unfortunately he has not using the excuse that everyone he knows who has married is now divorced, which is pretty much true. However they are not us. I think he is a commitment phobe although he denies this saying he is committed to me.

Yes I have made it clear that it must all stop & he knows I continue to snoop. He says he is trying his best?
I get so tired of snooping though I just want to trust, but truth be known I have never trusted him, he has always been a flirt, so that is something I have come to accept from quite early on, his whole family are like it.
He is very loving & says the right things, but I just wonder if he said all the right things to her also.
We are going on holiday in a week, so I think I will see how it goes & then make a decision.
Does anyone ever think, life was not meant to be this hard?
Thankyou.