Amplexor

Bandit

Take your time with your decision. Let the dust clear a little on this. If it is not meant to be then it just isn’t. You have been seriously hurt and only he can take responsibility for that. To cheat on a partner is an awful thing to do and I hope he truly shows remorse and humility. I have been through the emotional affair ordeal. Still am, but not the physical betrayal. I’m sure it is difficult. There are no doubt, many factors and issues you will need to consider in your process. Be honest with yourself and him in discussing them. Even though there is not a marriage commitment, there is a serious emotional one based on the length of your relationship. Decide what you really want for your future, then do your best to get you there. With or without him. Again good luck and take care.