Originally Posted by LexusNexus
Square: I never left her with baby, I was with the baby during a night. And her mother during a day. So she always had time to do stuff.
I had my mom to help me while he was at work but it is still a stressful time. We would even switch on and off who would take the night shift. I was also breastfeeding/pumping. My husband also thought I had time to do stuff cause I had my mom around during the day but in reality i just didnt have a lot of free time. Not sure what your wife does with her time when she doesnt have the baby around but for me my free time consisted of laundry, cleaning and whatnot that needed to be done. It was oh so much fun.
My daughter is 4 now but it didn't take a real long time for the lust to turn I would say from birth to maybe 6 months?? Give or take a month.