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Cabledog1 · 02-20-2008, 03:44 PM

It's been a rollercoaster. One moment we are taking steps foward, the next she is running away. I haven't been a saint, but when this broke I have been trying to be receptive to repair. I've tried not to barter change for change but to realistically look at myself and see how I contributed to this situation. I'm painfully aware of the statistics. I don't know if the why behind the infidelity is factored into it.

I wish I had been able to know more about the issues she is facing and attempting to deal with before this trial. It feels like the breakthrough on that will allow us to move foward together rather then the way things have been. I know I wish to reconcile, and it truly feels like she does too. There seems to be some issues that prevent it. She has reassured me that I am not the issue, and I am fairly certain she is attemping to use this time to clean out the things holding her from moving foward.

I don't want to end the relationship, but I also don't want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect, or trust me enough to share their feelings with. Do you ever really know when "enough is enough"?

02-20-2008, 03:44 PM	#3 (permalink)
Cabledog1 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 2	Re: Trial seperation It's been a rollercoaster. One moment we are taking steps foward, the next she is running away. I haven't been a saint, but when this broke I have been trying to be receptive to repair. I've tried not to barter change for change but to realistically look at myself and see how I contributed to this situation. I'm painfully aware of the statistics. I don't know if the why behind the infidelity is factored into it. I wish I had been able to know more about the issues she is facing and attempting to deal with before this trial. It feels like the breakthrough on that will allow us to move foward together rather then the way things have been. I know I wish to reconcile, and it truly feels like she does too. There seems to be some issues that prevent it. She has reassured me that I am not the issue, and I am fairly certain she is attemping to use this time to clean out the things holding her from moving foward. I don't want to end the relationship, but I also don't want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect, or trust me enough to share their feelings with. Do you ever really know when "enough is enough"?