Originally Posted by SadSamIAm

"I just realized that it wouldn't have lasted with my guilt towards my husband and the pain I saw in his eyes when he would pick up our kids for the weekend. I knew that I would have to be alone for a while before starting a new relationship. Did it work out that way? no, hubby and I R. far too soon, where we should have worked on some issues first. We both wanted to get our family back together, probably too soon."

I think the problem with the above statement the OP made is that the word LOVE isn't in her explanation.

She went back to her husband because of her guilt and because she wanted her family back. Not because she loves her husband. My feeling is that if she loved her husband, she wouldn't have cheated on him. Without love, their reconciliation is doomed.