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Originally Posted by sigma1299  So my advice would be to talk to him and when he does something right let him know - over the top - make sure he knows you like what he's doing...IMO the safe word is a good idea, I asked my wife about this and she blew it off. If we had it in place I would feel much better about pushing the boundaries with less direction from her. |
The proper reaction will do so much more for you than anything you'll get him to read in a book or a blog.
Although once he understands, you could point him towards MMSL.
