Hi thank you so much for the responses. Dweezledap, thank you very much for your reply, I am not sure I understand the question you asked.....yes my husband does speak english I was quoting him exactly....what I meant to say, and maybe I was not clear, is that what he said to me it seems he has indicated many times in various ways in the past but not as clearly as he did last night.
) Now I really understand what he means BUT it is no less confusing to me to find out that my husband has that ridgid of rules for me.