Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - My husband thinks that I dont love him because Im not affectionate.

Catherine602 · 11-23-2011, 11:54 AM

I think I may have insulted some posters by my zeal to welcome this poster to keep up the dialogue.

I am sorry I did not mean to seem like a know-it-all. Of course everyone has a right to express their feelings as they please. I was concerned that the OP would be frightened away by harsh comments. I have seen it too many times before.

She is the type of poster we need on TAM. We need to hear what she has to say. We need to work at knocking down her defenses and helping her to see the light. If it can happen here then it is inspiration to the men and women dealing with this problem.

I have gotten many PM's from women who will not post because they see the hostility of communication is by some people.

They lurk and try to solve their problem by reading but the never get the chance to have a dialogue because they fear the anger. A post on this thread pointed to that.

This is a wonderful community of people. We have room to welcome more though. Women who have low libido should have a safe place to go to express their feelings. They don't. They are not inherently evil but confused and need guidance. They are sensitive because they are troubled by their feelings.

I am not trying to control anything but suggesting that by toning it down, she may keep posting and be helped. It will inspire other women like her to post and be helped.

11-23-2011, 11:54 AM	#41 (permalink)
Catherine602 Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 3,575	Re: My husband thinks that I dont love him because Im not affectionate. I think I may have insulted some posters by my zeal to welcome this poster to keep up the dialogue. I am sorry I did not mean to seem like a know-it-all. Of course everyone has a right to express their feelings as they please. I was concerned that the OP would be frightened away by harsh comments. I have seen it too many times before. She is the type of poster we need on TAM. We need to hear what she has to say. We need to work at knocking down her defenses and helping her to see the light. If it can happen here then it is inspiration to the men and women dealing with this problem. I have gotten many PM's from women who will not post because they see the hostility of communication is by some people. They lurk and try to solve their problem by reading but the never get the chance to have a dialogue because they fear the anger. A post on this thread pointed to that. This is a wonderful community of people. We have room to welcome more though. Women who have low libido should have a safe place to go to express their feelings. They don't. They are not inherently evil but confused and need guidance. They are sensitive because they are troubled by their feelings. I am not trying to control anything but suggesting that by toning it down, she may keep posting and be helped. It will inspire other women like her to post and be helped.