Keep in mind my entire family has served in the military (mostly army, some navy) My father was in vietnam and 16 years in, my mother served ten years both my grandfathers served in WWII my father, and both grandfathers wounded in action. I applied but was turned down because I had spina bifida (at the time no one knew of my MD).
We live in a republic where everyone has rights. No one deserves or should get rights above another, nor should they get more consideration. Every citizen has a role in this country. Everyone makes it work. Each has a valid opinion.
I think we should respect those in dangerous jobs to protect all of us. The Armed Services, Police, Firemen and medical fields all risk their lives. But it is something they chose to do. This great country was founded on dissent (to differ in sentiment or opinion, esp. from the majority; withhold assent
So while they may have been rude to have said what they said, it was the very thing that founded the USA in te first place. Complacency (a feeling of quiet pleasure or security, often while unaware of some potential danger, defect, or the like; self-satisfaction or smug satisfaction with an existing situation, condition, etc.) breeds tyranny.
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