| | Ladies - Negative feelings about giving oral?
I am getting ready to go home soon after 6 months away from my W (deployment). As you can imagine, I am looking forward to being intimate with her again. I have been fantasizing what I would like to happen upon my return. One of which is to be greeted with a bj.
I wish my W were more enthusiastic about giving them. Iíve searched for threads covering lack of interest in felatio but couldnít find any. From what I read here it seems that most (if not all) women are. My W says that she is scared of the ending, not liking cum in her mouth; she says she doesnít like the warm mucus aspect of it and says it gags her. This disappoints me but I understand and can deal with it. I have told her that I will give her warning when Iím about to shoot so I can pull out and she seems ok with that.
I envy many of the husbands because it seems like bjís are a regular repertoire that are eagerly given. My W says she is willing to do them but doesnít like to as she is paranoid that I will finish in her mouth again, especially when she starts to notice pre cum in her mouth. Because of this I have never had a good one. In the past she put most of her focus on licking and not the actual meat and potatoes of the act. This was just a tease and has left me frustrated on the few occasions she has attempted; I kept this frustration to myself up until recently when we talked about it over the phone. She expressed her hang-up but said she wants to do it to please me. I don't want it to be a chore for her. I would like for her to want to do it or at least a little eager.
Have any of you ladies ever had a hang up with giving oral sex? If so, what helped you get past this? I want to be understanding toward her yet I also would like to have this apart of our sex life. We need to spice things up some but thatís another story.