| | Re: Affair with my neighbor
Speaking as someone who cheated on her husband, I get a lot of what your saying, in the beginning you were ready to give it all up because someone else made you feel good inside. Believe me, it doesn't last, it is a fantasy. I'm glad you decided to come clean with your wife, and end the affair. Not sure if it will make a difference in your situation that you tell her before she finds out, but give it a shot.
You have a tough road a head of you, but like the advice I have been given, show her how much you are devoted to her, and how you want to re-build a happy marriage. Remember actions say it all.