Poor you
what an awful thing to have to hear from the person supposedly closest to you, that is your partner in life.
Has this man told you WHY he has no intention of taking part in a normal loving relationship with his own wife?
Why did he marry you??
So he will divorce you if you try to communicate with him... I suggest your next communication should be a letter from your lawyer because I think he is preparing to divorce you anyway, but wants it to be when it most suits him. Perhaps home/job are an issue, or maybe there is some other woman who is not yet 'available' to move in with.
As the old saying goes, 'do unto others, as they would do unto you... but do it FIRST!'