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oldfashioned1 · 11-25-2011, 02:32 PM

Oh boy... I worked in the nightclub scenario when I was in college and watched this kind of thing all the time with the management. Yeuck! Anyway, there's no reason why he should have ever been upstairs in a womans bed. For me, it would have been done right then. It seems apparant what is going on but I can understand that you want to be certain before you make a decision and forever regret it because you are not certain that something is really going on. I'm pretty sure it is. Best thing you can do is to find out the truth. Hire a private detective. should cost you under $500 since it's a bar and the PI can watch pretty easily in that type of scenario. I did it with my first marriage of 12 years. Wish I would have done it sooner, would have saved me alot of pain. You'll know for sure then and can base your decision on the truth. Best money you can ever spend. and if you don't have the money, get it from him somehow. You'll feel a little better knowing the sob paid to get himself caught!

11-25-2011, 02:32 PM	#2 (permalink)
oldfashioned1 Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 34	Re: Untrustworthy husband...again Oh boy... I worked in the nightclub scenario when I was in college and watched this kind of thing all the time with the management. Yeuck! Anyway, there's no reason why he should have ever been upstairs in a womans bed. For me, it would have been done right then. It seems apparant what is going on but I can understand that you want to be certain before you make a decision and forever regret it because you are not certain that something is really going on. I'm pretty sure it is. Best thing you can do is to find out the truth. Hire a private detective. should cost you under $500 since it's a bar and the PI can watch pretty easily in that type of scenario. I did it with my first marriage of 12 years. Wish I would have done it sooner, would have saved me alot of pain. You'll know for sure then and can base your decision on the truth. Best money you can ever spend. and if you don't have the money, get it from him somehow. You'll feel a little better knowing the sob paid to get himself caught!