Originally Posted by crystall

Mr.Franklin!!, With all due respect,I couldn't resist not answering your post."I did a favor in marrying her"Is she handicapped ?Disgusting to look at?Another ****ty form of 'Male ego'.You say you remember all you vows??[GROOM], will you have this woman to be your wedded wife? To be your friend and companion? Will you love her, comfort her, honor, and keep her in sickness and in health, and forsaking all others, remain faithful in your love for her, so long as you both shall live?I promise never to forsake her, but to guide her and love her"I chose to ignore her?"That's a Bull$h!t cop-out answer. You can change, you just don't want to. If you don't love her anymore, that's one thing, but driving her away because "you can't change" is BS in my opinion.You married your wife because why....? Because you love her and you committed to being there for one another through the good and the bad. You need to turn to your wife for support and guidance. Its not about needing someone its about wanting to share your life with her-not for your mortagage and rents..she deserves much more than a person like you.
If this is what you are,with all due respect, then I don't think your wife doesn't know about it.Your' pride 'she must be knowing it all.Just like a man wants to play around with women,a women has an inner sense which tells her about men.You likely fooled her 'with all respect 'for 9 years and she probably left you for good.My gut tells me, you hurt her a lot and she probably deserves someone who loves her truly.Someone who can make her happy when shes angry.Every woman shall despice your attitude not your wife alone.Don't know where you guys get such thoughts from.Why cant you think if the advisor tolerates you to be happy with your wife ?Trust me ,Your wife is not coming back.I know from your posts here that you are an a-hole."With all due respect."