Originally Posted by A Good Husband

I've been married five years and have been the sole provider for the entire time. We don't have kids either.

I wash the dishes for every meal, keep my part of the bedroom clean, take out the dishes and install light bulbs.

Yes, men should take on their share of the chores - but that doesn't mean you should use these responses to go home and say "ha!" to your spouse. You have to work it out in a kind way.