Originally Posted by Shaggy
Wow, just wow.
I don't want to rain more on this, but I doubt it was only once. They've been too cozy etc for too long.
So what's it to be? Sweep it under the carpet, or demand full transparency from him, or kick him into the street?
If you let him stay - you need to demand that you get full transparency from him now and forever more. You get to look at his phone anytime you want, you get to be in the pub anytime, and you get to decide on hiring and firing anyone working there.
No more passive little wife for him to step out on.
I know it's really early days but I don't think I can forgive this. He's been keeping this from me for over six months and has lied and manipulated me to keep me from this. He could have owned up the first time I confronted him and because he's a coward he decided to carry on lying. Also the girl is NINETEEN and he is a grown man! What kind of man can do that to a vulnerable teenager ... I don't think she didn't pursue him, but she's bearly an adult and has had a really rough life. So he ****s her, gets her pregnant the takes her for an abotion so his wife doesnt find out. What kind of man have i spent the last ren years if my life with. He's ruined his life and hers. My life is going through a ****ty time but me and the kids will be ok, even happy, eventually.
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