| | Re: Does spouse have a disorder? If so, can we overcome?
I too have had to deal with emotional abuse and verbal abuse. I beleive people can change if they want too. I am lost in my marriage as well and I think we are going to try counseling. If he isn't up for that then maybe you need to present him with legal separation documents. Sometimes I think that when someone knows you are ready to move on they start to look back and realize how important you are to them. Otherwise, if they say okay then I think you know what your answer is.
Stop trying to figure out what is wrong with them, I have tried to do that and it can make you crazy. Men suck is the conclusion I have come too.
Do you bring in an income? How old are your children?