shannypooh

I have been married for 12 years and we have a more than un-usual sex life. In the beginning we had sex about 4-5 times a week. Which is/was fine. However up until recently (about 1 year now) my H wants/craves/desires sex EVERYDAY! I recently counted since Oct. 19th we have had sex EVERYDAY. On Friday I stated to him that I didnt want to have sex because I was tired. The truth was I simply didnt want to. I wanted my Va-jay to rest. He got very upset and told me I wasnt being fair. I know that was selfish of him to say, however he could not understand why I would be tired. This is not the first time, that we got into a arguement because I didnt want to have sex. I enjoy sex (as you can see) but now it seems to me like its is a daily task such as brushing your teeth and taking a bath. I enjoy sex because its something spontenous and fun, not a task/chore, that I now need to include in my day as a must. I cant talk to him about it, because he will get pissed. I just want to know if there is anyone out there that has this problem, it seems to me that my situation is rare, being that most of the women on here is frustrated about not having sex...