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Hey, just a quick update. So tonight, after 3 days of nothing I text her and of course no response. Then about 5 minutes later, her status update shows she now "married" to her ex. I'm like well thanks for at least telling me on Saturday night this was coming, not that I was shocked by this. Well more of the way she did it, not even being straight up with me in person, but we all know the reasons. So yeah, everyone was right on the head with that call. Thanks guys. It's funny, because she hasn't unfriended me on fb yet, and that just proves everyone's theory even more, I'm her plan B. I mean wouldn't that be about the first or second thing you would do, is remove the guy you were with? I guess some people enjoy those sick love tri-angles, but no thanks. I did text her a nice message though, just stating the facts. This what I said:

I guess I don't know why you couldn't of told me you were going back to Tom on Saturday, I gave you the out. It would of been easier for me to hear it from you, and I'm happy for you Emily. I told you before we even saw each other, that if he ever wanted you back, i can't stand in the way. I hope it works out for you guys. Just know that I did love you Emily, Nika, and Trina. I would of done anything for you guys. Even though we only had a short time together, I'll never forget you and what we shared. I'm really going to miss you Em...
Take care hun, give them all one last hug from me...

No response, and I don't expect one either, because what I said comes from my heart, and you have to have one to respond to something like that.

Thanks again for the great advice everyone, I love this site.