It does sound as if marrying you was one of his 'projects' that he now considers 'completed'
It isn't stupid, because I am also having trouble absorbing this weird attitude of his. When you get married, you enter into a partnership, making two parts a stronger whole. You are supposed to share good times, and also bad times, and downright horrific times, but always together as a unit.
He is distancing himself from his responsibility as one half of the partnership.
I always hate it when people on here immediately say 'divorce him/her' in answer to any problems, as I believe that a marriage is a committment that shouldn't be easy to get out of, and about trying hard to make things work, but to be perfectly honest with you, I think in this case, there is nothing else you can do.
You are a normal woman who deserves to be in a loving relationship the same as everybody else. Your husband isn't capable of one
