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BALANCE · 11-30-2011, 03:22 PM

I was thinking of a new approach to apologies.

What if I were to ask her to share with me the things that I have done in the past that were hurtful. Once she tells me what it is I can ask her if she would be willing to forgive. If she says yes then I will gladly apologies, if she says no, I don't really see the point.

Does that seem fair? Is it manipulative or controlling?

11-30-2011, 03:22 PM	#17 (permalink)
BALANCE Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 135	Re: My Basic Expectations I was thinking of a new approach to apologies. What if I were to ask her to share with me the things that I have done in the past that were hurtful. Once she tells me what it is I can ask her if she would be willing to forgive. If she says yes then I will gladly apologies, if she says no, I don't really see the point. Does that seem fair? Is it manipulative or controlling?