| | Re: My Basic Expectations
I was thinking of a new approach to apologies.
What if I were to ask her to share with me the things that I have done in the past that were hurtful. Once she tells me what it is I can ask her if she would be willing to forgive. If she says yes then I will gladly apologies, if she says no, I don't really see the point.
Does that seem fair? Is it manipulative or controlling?