Pressure from peers/family is the exact WRONG reason to have a kid.
We are childless by choice and plan on remaining that way.
Honestly? Before I clicked on the thread, my knee jerk reaction was "if you're wondering whether or not to have children, you probably shouldn't." It sounds like you and your husband already have full plates to me... if having a child right now would derail your career or finishing your degree... I certainly don't see the benefit. Tell your interfering friends/family to kindly butt out next time they hint at you.