| | Re: Need some encouragement
Panera, you need to be tougher.
When your husband comes home (if he does) he needs to know that you won't tolerate sharing him with anyone. If you don't give him this message now and he returns home, you won't be able to trust him. He will know that he can have another affair and you will be waiting.
If you want a life with him, you have to let him go. File for divorce. Tell him you love him, but you won't share him. Make him make a decision. Don't return calls or texts. Work on making yourself the best person you can. Someone he will want. Someone that other men will want.