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Originally Posted by klop
Thanks Draconis, You always give great advice. I have only been with my wife and my gf in the last 15 years. I always use a condom with the girlfriend. I think it is the only respectful thing to do for my wife. And even if my wife were to discover my relationship, she would not leave me. I am a good husband, I have just be withheld sex for too long. I know an adulterous relationship is devestating to everyone involved, but how can the other women in this forum expect a man to stay and be faithful if she does not provide sex, for any reason over a long period of time? Sexual relations are a natural function of life. If it is no longer availible, yet the man still wants to provide for his wife, how can she complain about what the husband does to satify this natural function of life?
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How can one person have such an ego. "Even if my wife were to discover my relationship, she would not leave me. I am a good husband..." How in the h*** can you consider yourself a good husband? That's like saying a lawyer that loses cases is a good lawyer. A good husband would have talked to his wife about his sexual needs and if they still weren't being met, he would have jacked off in the shower or to a porn. Seriously, get over yourself. Perhaps, your wife has needs that you are not fulfilling. Maybe she thinks you suck in bed, and that's why she isn't interested in having sex. Personally, I think that men like you are the scum of the earth, and are why many woman turn gay and/or man haters. I think that you should tell your girlfriend that your wife is pregnant, and you should tell your wife that you have a girlfriend. If you want to do that child any favors at all, you will leave the girlfriend. Would you be proud of a child that was cheating on their spouse? It's not just about your needs anymore; you are going to be a parent and role model. Lord help the child that you are a role model for. Grow some balls and tell both of them about the other. That's what a REAL man would do.